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To be honest, I didn't think of my parents when I met this girl. I went back to my parent’s the next day and told my mother. She asked me how I could torture them like that, whether I wanted to torture them until their deaths, how could I do this to them.I was only thinking of myself and I saw long-term potential with an awesome human being. Her immediate reaction was to say “no” and “this is impossible” before she broke out in tears. I went downstairs and my father reiterated the stuff he said the previous day, emphasizing the societal problems we would face this time.He said I've done a lot of things against his will throughout my life and he compromised letting me do so, but this time he would not compromise. This was the "red line", the bottom line, the line which he wouldn't compromise.Not the time I chose which school I wanted to go to for college.He asked if any of my friends were dating a black person.I told him about my white friend who was, and he said at least the level would be higher than an asian/black pairing.
He asked to meet for lunch a day after he got back, to talk.
I told my dad about her over text while he was on vacation, included a picture of us together, and expressed my concerns about my mom due to my gf's race.
From his initial reply, he seemed mostly neutral to it, although he said it came as a shock to him.
That I understood the difficulties for any future generations, the difficulties we'd face from bigots (much like him).
He called me idealistic, naive, and explained about social hierarchy (in his view: whites -- black), and how I'd be marrying down if it ever came to that.